Need advice ASAP…

Hey guys

So it’s 10.56pm (to be precise) and I am feeling so anxious and in desperate need of some advice aka HELPP ME.

So my boyfriend is on a night out with loads of people we used to go to school with and don’t get me wrong I trust him and deep down I know he would never cheat on me. He isn’t a huge drinker and doesn’t usually drink much when he’s with his friends, however tonight feels different and I’m worried.

When he’s out he always tries to still speak to me but tonight his replies are so slow (like a good half an hour between) and maybe I’m being a psycho bitch but he never replies that slowly and he isn’t even paying much attention to our conversation. He’s also just admitted he’s pretty drunk which is not like him especially when he’s working at 7 tomorrow.

Wow I sound like an old married woman!

Blooming hell Meg get to the point (insert eye roll)

Although I know he won’t cheat I’m scared someone will come on to him and he’s gonna be too drunk to stop them, my ex cheated on me a lot and his excuse was he was drunk, what if this is the same situation?

Please tell me if I’m being a crazy psycho girlfriend or if you guys have experienced this or just some advice what be amazing, I’m so worried and don’t know what to do.

Ahh help 😂

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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You are the Instagram model…

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Hey guys,

Today I want to discuss something that is a major issue in society right now.

Body image in the media.

I was scrolling though Instagram before and all I saw were flawless girls with the ‘perfect’ body, just scrolling through seeing this made me feel bad about myself. But why should I?

The truth behind these photos on insta or other social media’s is that they have make up on, lighting, filters, posing or tensing. It’s not realistic.

Why can’t girls be encouraged to recognise their natural beauty, you don’t need a team to prepare you for the photo so you can look good. The reality is, like me, your probably sat in your slouchy clothes, hair in a messy bun, make up free but that does not make you any less beautiful than the girls on insta.

Don’t get me wrong I would love to be as flawless as them and if you are able to have the opportunity to be on a photo shoot with a team to make you look like a flawless insta model then do it.

What matters in this is that the person you are posting is happy and comfortable in themselves, not just for the camera, because if you accept yourself for who you are and see your own natural beauty then you are that Instagram model.

Let me know in the comments your views on this topic, I would love to hear other people’s views and whether you disagree or agree with mine.

I do want to go further into this topic and discuss it more as it is something I feel very strongly about.

Hope your all fine and dandy,

Have a good day!

Meg xxx

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The wanderer returns…

I’m back and more motivated than ever comment on this post any subjects you want me to discuss, advice or just anything you want. It’s good to be back, thank you for reading xx

(taken on iPhone 6s)

Hey guys

As per usual I’ve been away for a while :/ if there was an award for the worst blogger in the universe I would be straight up awarded it.

However I may have been bogged down with course work and I am determined this year to get accepted into uni so my time off here isn’t being completely wasted I am working hard I promise you 😂.

But I am back now and more motivated than ever to be doing regular posts some of you may like that, others may be about to press the unfollow/mute or whatever button people press on this to stop seeing someone (as you can tell I don’t really have a clue how to work this, feel free to give me some tips haha!)

I’ve tried many different posts on this blog from fashion to advice and life stories, and personally although I love to show people what unnecessary things I’ve spent my dying bank balance on, I really love raising awareness on issues, giving advice and boring you with my problems and embarrassing stories. So I guess that’s what I’m gonna focus on now.

Please comment any posts you want to see, topics you want me to discuss or if you need any advice on anything let me know and I’ll do a post!

I really want this blog to be more interactive, it’s not just my blog it’s yours as well.

Hope your all fine and dandy!

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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What does the future hold?

(Taken on iPhone 6s thought I’d jazz the post up with a nice picture 🤷‍♀️😂)

Hey guys,

I’ve not written on here in agesss but there’s nothing new there! #worldsworstblogger

I’ve recently begun my first year of nursing training and don’t get me wrong it seems like an amazing job and I really admire the work of nurses however I don’t know if it’s the right thing for me.

I am quite a creative person and I don’t like when everyday is the same I need to be on the move otherwise I get bored and unmotivated.

I am getting so worried that I am doing the wrong thing by doing this course and I don’t want to be stuck in a job that I am not passionate about simply because I don’t know what else I’d do.

So I need your help, have you guys ever been in this situation or have any advice you can give me? Also if you have any alternative courier ideas for me throw them my way cause I need all the help and ideas I can get at the minute!

Hope your all fine and dandy!

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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Where have I been???

Hey everyone,

It must have been almost a year since I last posted. So the big question your probably wondering is ‘where the heck have you been?’ I have ALOT to update you guys on!!

The reason I stopped blogging was that I was entering my final year of school and I needed to be fully focused on my school work to get the grades I need to go to uni this summer. Yeah…so… that went VERY pear-shaped (cue the tiny violin playing for me) I got rejected from all 5 of my uni choices. Ngl that sucked and it is really hard seeing my friends getting all excited buying stuff for their accommodation and I’m stuck living at home not really knowing what I’m doing with my life, but I do believe everything happens for a reason so maybe I can turn this into something good?

Okay, so my academic situation is out of the way now for the big news that hurts to say the most. If you’re reading this post and you used to read my blog posts before I went M.I.A then you will know I was in a long distance relationship cause I think its all I ever blogged about (cringe). Just over a week ago that guy broke up with me after we’d been going out for over a year because he was ‘bored’ and ‘wanted to be single’. It was so out of the blue so understandably I was really hurt by this and just when I thought my luck couldn’t get any worse I found out he cheated on me 4 times with the same girl. So to sum it up I must have mug written across my forehead by now.

I’m really not having any luck atm so let me know below some good things that have happened to you lately cause this post is pretty sad and not exactly the positive posts I like to do haha.

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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Day 62- It’s Tough

Hey everyone

(Photo taken on my iPhone 6s no filters all natural)

Okay so… I’m admitting it… long distance relationships are so tough. Don’t get me wrong I do adore my boyfriend but because of the distance and a couple other factors I may not be seeing him again until the beginning of next year and I am finding that so tough.

I’ve tried talking to my friends but they just don’t get it they just tell me to end it but that’s not what I want. Now I’m asking you guys… I need some help do you have any advice or have you been in my situation Before? Please let me know.

The one thing I hate about the long distance relationship is that we miss out on a lot of normal couple things, like just popping round to each other’s houses when we have a free couple of hours and watching a film or our favourite tv show. We have to plan in advance when we will see each other and it’s only for about 5 hours so not even a full day because of travelling. I didn’t think it would be this hard but I honestly do miss him so much and it’s getting to me a lot thats why I need advice from you guys, cause I know you always manage to help me out.

Ps sorry for not posting regularly but I have a lot of school work atm with exams coming up👎

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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The return- Day 61

Hey everyone


This is a photo from a little holiday I went on recently (taken with the iPhone 6S)


Okay so I went A-wall recently and haven’t uploaded a blog post in months! I really wish I had posted one sooner but honestly I’ve been under a lot of stress lately that I don’t want to go into so I’ll move quickly on to something so good haha!

If you read my posts before (when I actually uploaded 🙄😂) you will know there was a guy I was speaking to and I just want to let you know….we’re not speaking anymore…. he’s my boyfriend now!!!!

I know it’s crazy meg actually has herself an amazing (and v good looking if I may add that haha) boyfriend. It is a long distance relationship and I do wish I could see him so much more than I do but right now I just make the most of the little time we have together. This is the happiest I think I’ve ever been.

I can’t really report on much else that’s happend in the months I’ve been A-wall but hey ho I’m back now and I plan to stay!

Has anything exciting happened in your lives in the past few months?

Sorry again for going A-wall!

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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Bad blogger- Day60

Hey everyone

I can’t believe how long it has been since I uploaded! To be honest with you I have been so busy with school and work it has been hard to find time for the blog but, I’m finding the time right now.

I feel like recently all my posts have been me apologising for how crap my posts are so I’m not gonna spend too long in this post apologising (but I am sorry 😂).

Not much has happened with me recently I’m just trying to focus on getting my grades which isn’t as easy as I thought it was going to be but you can’t achieve anything without a bit of hard work!

How have you been recently? Have you done anything exciting?

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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Sorry-Day59

Hey guys

I wish this could be a long detailed interesting post but unfortunately it’s just a quick post to apologise for not uploading. I’ve been so busy with school and having a cold is not helping hopefully I’ll be able to get a good post up tomorrow but for now I’m going to go to bed haha!

Have you had a good few days?

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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In 40 years time- Day 58

Hey everyone

Sorry for not uploading yesterday it had been a long busy day and as soon as I finished my school work I ended up falling asleep.

Today I had my psychology college course and we were learning about memory. It got me thinking (I know that’s a rare thing haha) but right now I have all my school friends around me, I have my routine I do things everyday that I think I will always remember doing. However in say 40 years time if someone shows me a picture of my 6th form I probably wouldn’t even be able to tell you everyones names and I’m not gonna lie, that scares me.

The people you know, see and speak to almost everyday of your life will ,one day, become a blank space in your mind. You won’t remember their name or what classes you had with them. That’s just life. You might pass them in the street and think ‘ I recognise them’ but you won’t be able to say where from.

People come and go, you will forget most people that come and go in your lives I just hope I won’t forget the good people.

Hope your day wasn’t too shabby yesterday! And sorry again for not uploading!

Have a good day,

Meg xxx

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